What? And you also don't have a boyfriend? You must have high standards!
THAT'S NOT TRUE!
Don't ever think that you have high standards.
After all, it is not logical to settle for a man that is lousy.
To give you a sense of what I mean, continue to read on as I told you what happened on my very last date appointment with a matchmaking agency I signed up with.
The matchmaking agency called me up one day and told me there's a very eligible guy to introduce to me. The guy was a Singaporean, about a few years older than I was, has a Master degree in Finance, just came back to Singapore from his studies in Australia, and works in banking industry as a consultant. He was nice looking too and looked gentlemen-like.
That night after work, I went down to the matchmaking agency office at the stipulated time and waited for the guy. He then came and we were introduced to each other. We then left the office and started chatting. We then talked about each other's job. I told him that I had changed career, than I was no longer a financial consultant and instead was an application consultant then. He then suddenly stopped in his tracks and told me he felt cheated. He told me he wanted us to go back to the agency as he wanted to ask for a refund.
I was flabbergasted and disgusted. However, I thought there was no point in continuing the night with this guy, I simply told him, "Up to you. Alright.... We'll go back."
I was thinking then, "What is wrong with me?"
But no. There's nothing wrong with me.
It's not that I have high standards. It's he who has low standards.
Even when I shared with my friends about this incident, they were calling this guy an asshole.
As long as you know you look okay, your career is okay, your hobbies are okay and your social circle consists of people who are okay, you are fine.
Keep looking for better ones.
He's out there. Don't give up.
Don't give in to bullshit.
I wish you luck!
